Just Keep Swimming

OK I feel OK about posting a bit about what has went on in my life. Recently after some online harassment/stalking from my exes girlfriend I was forced to go to the police, so they could ask her to stop. As far as I know they did and it has stopped. However this has left me fearful of what length's this woman will go to. When I go to school or work will it extend there? Since I have no idea of how far both of their stalking extends I no longer feel safe posting the most intimate details of my life at the very least until my divorce is processed, but I hate to be completely silent.

Life otherwise has been wonderful for me. I have chosen a career path and will go back to school after my youngest is a year old. My goal is to have a career that will allow me to comfortably support myself and my boys without "needing" support from their Father. I feel like I really have made a good impression thus far even going far as when I called to book a test the instructor remembered me and had been hoping I would be calling. That felt pretty good. The information session I attended was not a small group and they do several a month.

I have also been seeing someone. Without embarrassing him to much by disclosing to much I can say our blooming relationship has been fantastic and wonderful. He is kind, funny, good with my boys, smart, and so respectful of me... I can honestly say I am in love with this person. To be in love scares me a bit because I worry that my judgement's are skewed by my past relationship but I am trying really hard not to let those feelings overshadow my new relationship. I really feel like right now I am at the place in my life where I am supposed to be with the the person I am supposed to be with. With him I feel content and at peace, I don't have to be anyone but myself. Maybe that's the way it's supposed to be...

I am really looking forward to the day I can say my divorce is final and perhaps I can start sharing a bit more about my life on the blog. I hope all my blog friends are doing well. I promise even if I am scarce here now I do still religiously read your blogs. Until next time....

Cariwest 2009

Today the boys, my Dad, and I took in the Cariwest Parade. Brandon was a bit owly but seemed to have a good time. Here are some ok ALOT if photo's from the day. Click on the slideshow to enlarge the photo's and see captions.

I Thought I Was Being Over-Cautious....

While I still will post photo's and other generic things. For the time being I will cease sharing about my personal life. I sometimes thought I was being over-paranoid in regards to my abuser and my online safety. Something happened to tell me that my suspicions were justified. If you know me from a parenting forum and are wondering why I am not posting this is why. I do still accept emails and messages etc. I hope you all stick around until my divorce is final and I can perhaps return to some normalcy.

An Entertaining Entrance

I came upon this video because of a facebook friend. The most awesome wedding entrance I have ever seen. Fun and original. I would have loveed to been at a wedding like this, I bet the entire day was fun. This is SO something I would do.

Capital Ex Parade 2009

Today I took the kidlets to enjoy their first ever parade. I also brought the camera, be warned I took ALOT of photo's. Click the slideshow to make it bigger and see captions.

Ford Classic Car Show

Today my Father, the kidlets, and I hit up Healy Ford where a classic car show was happening. My oldest loves car so this was the perfect activity for him. I figured this was the perfect opportunity to practice using my DSLR camera. Click the slideshow to make it larger and see the captions.

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